Merton (Parliament Politics Magazine) – Over 40 primary schools in Merton participate in athletic and physical education programs sponsored by the organization.
According to The Times, the partnership’s director, Nicola Ryan, noted “too many concerning behaviours to be able to continue to accommodate spectators.”
Examples of inappropriate conduct included “abuse towards officials and other children” and obstructing runners by crossing the finish lines.
According to reports, the letter also emphasizes how the players are placed in a “stressful environment, with too much pressure around performance and winning at all costs.”
In addition to “challenging organisers and officials around rules and decisions,” some parents were also serving as coaches and sharing pictures of their kids online without permission.
The partnership says the decision was not taken lightly.
“We hope you will appreciate that our decision is in the best interest and for the safety and welfare of all the children taking part,”
the letter adds.
Wimbledon MP Paul Kohler has described the decision to ban parents from school sporting events as “deeply disappointing”. He said the behaviour of a minority of parents had ultimately penalised “the vast majority who have always behaved responsively and supportively”.
“Whilst I understand how disappointed those parents will be, I know they, like me, would not want any child, teacher, or volunteer to ever feel unsafe or threatened at what should be an enjoyable family-friendly event.
The focus must always be on creating a positive environment for young people to enjoy sport and develop teamwork and confidence,”
he added.
“I hope this is a temporary measure to provide the space needed to reset expectations around respect and sportsmanship. With co-operation between the Merton School Sport Partnership, schools and parents, I am confident we can find a solution that addresses unacceptable conduct while allowing families to share in their children’s sporting achievements.”
Merton School Sport Partnership has been contacted for comment.
How might the parental ban affect student participation in sports?
Research shows active parental involvement typically boosts children’s enthusiasm, sports interest, and participation in extracurricular sports. Removing parents from events may reduce motivation and support for some students, potentially leading to lower participation, especially among younger children who rely on parental encouragement.
The absence of parental cheering and engagement can diminish the emotional reinforcement needed for sustained involvement. Conversely, excessive parental presence and pressure, particularly when associated with negative behaviors like shouting abuse or confrontation, can create anxiety and stress for student-athletes.
Banning disruptive parents may foster a safer, more positive environment, enabling children to enjoy sports without undue pressure or fear of negative adult behavior.
